Taggin Friends, Wishing Everyone a Most Wonderful Day!

A COUPLE OF WEEKS AGO I WROTE AN EMAIL TO JOE NOLAN.HE WAS A FRIEND OF RONNS AND THEN A FRIEND OF MINE BUT HE SORT OF BLEW ME OFF AND I WAS SO MAD AT HIM I WROTE AND TOLD HIM SO.

I WILL PASTE MY EMAIL ON HERE AND THEN HIS REPLY 2 WEEKS LATER..
PERSONALY I AM NOT OF A MOOD TO ANSWER HIM BACK AT ALL.

JOS IS A HANDICAPED YOUNG MAN IN HIS THIRTIES..IS IN A WHEEL CHAIR MOST OF THE TIME BUT CAN WALK SHORT DISTANCES WITH CRUTCHES. HE NEVER WAS OFFICIALLY DIAGNOSED BY ANY DOCTOR.THEY ARE NOT SURE.
BUT HE IS A VERY INTELLEGENT YOUNG MAN, VERY SMART WITH COMPUTERS
AND I THINK HAS A BIT OF MALE CHAUVENISM IN HIM.

WE BECAME FRIENDS WHEN RONN STARTED TAKING HIM TO HIS CAR AND BASEBALL CARD SHOWS. RONN WOULD WHEEL HIM AROUND AND SLOWING JOE AND I BECAME FRIENDS FROM TALKING ON THE PHONE AND EMAILING.. LAST YR HE WAS THERE FOR RONN..AND I THOUGHT OUR FRIENDSHIP WOULD CONTINUE....

ANYWAY I WILL LET YOU READ WHAT I SAID AND HIS REPLY BACK TO ME..

JUST NEEDING SOME ADVICE....

[color=darkred]-----Original Message-----
From: eileen greenwood [mailto:alwaysilee2005@yahoo.com]
Sent: Sunday, January 17, 2010 4:20 PM
To: Joe Nolan
Subject: DEAR JOE...

I AM REALLY MAD AT YOU AND VERY UPSET. I THOUGHT WE WERE FRIENDS.
AND I WOULD HAVE LOVED TO HAVE VISITED CHRISTMAS EVE FOR AN HR OR TWO..KYLE
WAS GOING TO BRING ME...
LIKE I SAID I THOUHT WE WERE FRIENDS THROUGH RONN BUT AS THE MONTHS HAVE
GONE BY IT WAS ALWAYS ME EMAILING YOU OR CALLING. AND I DONT THINK I
OVERDID IT OR TRIED TO LAY A WIDOWS GUILT TRIP ON YOU.

I WILL ALWAYS APPRECIATE HOW RONN FELT ABOUT YOU AND HOW MUCH YOU WERE
THERE FOR HIM DURING HIS LAST MONTHS.. I THANK YOU FOR THAT.

BUT WHY DID IT ALWAYS HAVE TO BE ME CALLING YOU. WHY COULDNT YOU HAVE PICKED
UP THE PHONE AT LEAST ONCE TO CALL ME.

THAT WAS VERY MUCH A ONE SIDED FRIENDSHIP.

I AM SORRY IF YOU THOUGHT YOU HAD TO BE STUCK WITH ME AFTER RONN DIED OUT OF
A SENSE OF DUTY.. YOU DIDNT.
BUT YOU EVEN TOLD ME WE WERE FRIENDS.

IF YOUR EMIL GOT LOST ABOUT CHRISTMAS EVE AND KNOWING HOW MUCH YOU KNEW I
WANTED TO COME THEN WHY DIDNT YOU CALL?

YES THIS HAS BE BUGGING ME FOR WEEKS.

YOU HAD BEEN THE ONLY ONE TO KEEP YOUR WORD... THEN THAT DIED.

I WOULD HAVE LISTENED TO YOUR PROBLEMS TOO. I USED TO.

BUT I THINK IN THE END IT REALLY MEANT NOTHING ON YOUR PART.

I DONT WISH YOU BAD THINGS AND I HOPE YOUR HEALTH IS GOOD
BUT YOU HAVE HURT MY FEELINGS VERY BADLY AND I NEEDED TO LET YOU KNOW.

THIS IS NOT HOW FRIENDS TREAT EACH OTHER.

EILEEN

HIS REPLY...
From: "Joe Nolan" View contact detailsTo: "'eileen greenwood'" Hi Eileen

I'm sorry that I upset you. Christmas was crazy around here and as I have
said, I in no way was trying to ignore you

THATS IT.. TO ME IF HE WAS SICK OR HIS MOM AND DAD HE COULD HAVE LET ME KNOW THE OPEN HOUSE WAS OFF FOR CHRISTMAS EVE..BUT HE DIDNT. I REALLY FEEL I JUST SHOULD NIP IT IN THE BUD AND NOT REPLY. JUST LET IT END. HE OBVIOUSLY MUST WANT THAT TOO. FOR AWHILE HE WAS LIKE A LITTLE BROTHER TO ME. HE KNEW RONN THE BEST AND IT WAS JUST EASY TO TALK ABOUT RONN WITH HIM.WE USUALLY LAUGHED. THATS WHY IT HURT SO BAD WHEN HE LOST INTEREST..